How to Detect a Manipulator Early On

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All of these manipulative tactics (gaslighting, martyrdom, mirroring, over the top, silent treatment, withholding, triangulation, ghosting, discard, love bombing, hoovering, gathering, playing the victim, etc...) will be cleverly concealed under the stages of "twin flame," making them difficult or even impossible to detect. We are brainwashed to believe that our "twin" is behaving in these ways because they are fearful of the connection, working up the courage to be with us, are healing from a past connection, or are working to free themselves from a "karmic." However, the signs we are actually dealing with an emotionally unavailable, manipulative or abusive partner will be revealed to us very early on. This person is going to be running on a "script," which is why these behaviors are typically universal. Our intuition will be screaming at us to walk away, but we may choose to ignore it—only to regret it later. These are just a few of the earliest red flags seen in a toxic and dangerous orchestrated connection (specifically through text message) that can easily be explained away as "normal" and expected in a "twin flame" connection, especially while under the spell of tarot card readings. My personal belief on "twin flame" connections: I believe the experience of meeting someone we come to believe is our "twin flame" is VERY real, but I no longer believe in the teachings behind these connections. I believe a combination of a dark, hidden technology and unseen entities are orchestrating and scripting these connections in order to feed off the emotional energy generated between the two people. Usually, at least one of the counterparts will experience a complete upheaval of their life, hitting rock bottom. These connections prevent us from truly awakening, since both the connection and the cult movement behind them serve as a "trap." We are prevented from growing and doing true healing work, since we are kept stagnant, in suffering, and in a toxic loop. Both counterparts roped into this type of connection are harboring a great deal of trauma and deep childhood wounds, especially a fear of rejection and abandonment. These wounds are often deeply unconscious. For this reason, we are preyed upon, and why we often find the romanticism of a twin flame connection so appealing. Typically, one counterpart will have a demonic and vampiristic entity (unconsciously) working through them to feed off the energy of the other (although both counterparts are at risk of entity attachments and are under the influence of mind control.) A forced "kundalini awakening" and psychosis usually occurs in one counterpart, allowing their energy to be harvested and deceiving them into believing they have been enlightened due to merging souls with their "other half." Both individuals are "plugged in" so that all of their actions and behaviors will follow a certain pattern or script, and one or both are usually programmed to take their counterpart through the cycles of narcissistic abuse. If you are experiencing one of these dynamics, you'll likely find yourself very drawn to tarot readings, where the connection will be coordinated to resonate with the readings that show up in your algorithm. We will simply manifest all of these "signs" and "synchronicities" through our unconscious mind. Typically, as one begins to break free and awaken to the truth, these fake "signs" and "synchs" will escalate. When the soul tie to this "original" twin flame has been broken, identical or similar connections will follow. These connections, while excruciatingly and soul-crushingly painful, do have the potential to be a catalyst for major growth and healing, but only if and when we break free from this toxic person and these dangerous twin flame teachings.